One Night at Finn's: A Finn's Pub Romance by R.G. Alexander

Author:R.G. Alexander [Alexander, R.G.]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Published: 2017-09-26T18:30:00+00:00

Dear Green,

My boyfriend of three years didn’t follow me out of the closet and the stress is getting to me. I love him and I want the world to know we’re together now, but he says his family isn’t ready. It’s been four months and I’m worried he’s the one with the problem. That he doesn’t feel the same way I do. Should I give him an ultimatum or will that pressure him and push him away? How do I keep him and stay true to myself? Signed, Loving Loud

Dear Loving Loud,

I really hope you don’t take this the wrong way, because we’re all proud of you for taking that step, but you need to turn that volume down for a minute so we can talk.

Coming out is a personal journey and I’m sure you already know it’s different for everyone. Yes, be proud you took that step. And yes, your frustration is natural, and he needs to know what you’re going through. But relationships only work if that goes both ways. So don’t give him an ultimatum without allowing him the time he needs to make his choice on his own.

When you remember that it took you three years, even with a man you loved in your life, for you to finally come out to the world? Four months doesn’t seem that long a delay.

Ask me the same time next year and my answer might be different.

Today you need to ask yourself a few questions. Do you really love him? Does he make you happy? Is what you’ve built together worth the effort and the patience he’s asking for? If yes is the answer, then your next step is clear. If not, then you both have some thinking to do.

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